April 7, 2026 Daily Reminder
- Apr 8
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As healers and empaths, it's often easy to believe the work is external - the desire is to help others - and pretty much always to the detriment of ourselves.
You can't fix toxic people. You can't help them to see the beauty of the world and the harm in their behavior.
You can only heal what drew you to said toxic person in the first place. And perhaps it is a family member that you have grown up with, or that has always been there, and you've adapted to the behavior.
This is deep work. Often empaths and healers want to help the world by taking it all on - it doesn't work. You can only heal by revealing and healing the part that believes it is only worthy of harm, abuse, etc. You are worthy of love, kindness, support, gentle reminders. Remember that, and replace the notion that you need to suffer from another in order to be worthy of all the love the Universe has to offer.
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